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Sunday, February 28, 2010

Tennis Match



A lot of times we are very unsure of what we want. There is always this constant battle between your heart and your mind. Your mind is always telling you what to do in a more logical sense and tells you whats best for you. But your heart always desires the opposite because your feelings pull you towards them. Your mouth says one thing and your heart feels something else. It's a constant tennis match back and forth and a lot of times you feel like your going crazy because you really can't decide between the two. I know a lot of times people go through these things especially when it relates to relationships. I can't help with any advice to make your decision because I haven't figured out the answer myself. And again these are the types of situations where you are the only one who will know what's best. The only thing I can say is that the only thing that would help is the person who is involved with your decision making. Communication is vital when it comes to feelings and choices. If you can somehow get the other person involved and communicate, explain your true feelings and choices and they will give you their honest feelings too, that would definitely help in your decision or at least come to some sort of compromise or absolution. You can only hope, that things will work out the way they're supposed to and just remember though.. at the end of the day.. everything happens for a reason. So again, don't go emo and beat yourself up if it doesn't work the way you want it to. Just move on and find a new desire.

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